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5:08 pm
February 28, 2011
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So, I had set an appointment up with a new client that had been trying to schedule with me for a week or so.
I, unfortunately had to turn down one of my regulars for this joke. He enters my pad, leaves my door wide open
and asks to use the restroom. I show him where it was, which the shower is clearly visible yet he walked across to look in my closet for a shower. Then came out after doing nothing and said he didn't want to do this. That he expected
something / someone different. He stated he was expecting a much younger woman from what my reviews said. I'm not ashamed of my age and tell everyone that I'm in my late 30's and a few of my reviews include that. I have no
clue the real reason this 60+ yr old dude was tripping, but for GOD sake atleast leave a tip for being an a__! Btw, the
referances he gave are also women, not in their 20's. CREEP!
5:51 pm
February 28, 2011
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Unfortunately, no-shows, weirdo's, etc…are an occupational hazard, even with screening. My ATF has shared a few horror stories and frankly I sometimes wonder how providers psych themselves up to open the door for a new client.
Your post also brings up a question I have wondered about. Although I've never just walked out on an appointment because of a bad vibe, what would be the appropriate "thanks but no thanks" tip?
7:09 pm
May 20, 2011
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Regarding the tip question, it depends on several things that can be debated ad nauseam. However, I scheduled with a provider a few years back and found she and her setup were far different than what was advertised. I dropped a 20 dollar bill on the table, said no thanks, and walked away.
7:52 pm
February 28, 2011
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I do agree when providers are presenting less than honest .. pic, servies, price.. the hobbyist should definitely split.
In my case, my pics are very recent, untouched, and my reviews are all fully honest. I really think he was just a tripper or possibly intimidated.. Or he could have read another providers reviews and was expecting an 18 yr old. It irritates me simply because I am honest and so are my reviews… I feel depending on how badly a provider was misrepresented should determine a tip. I honestly feel a tip isn't expected for fakeness. Providers (and) Hobbyists should be exactly who they are and not what they wish to be. If you're 45, be 45.. not trying to pass for 38.
10:10 am
February 28, 2011
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Honestly Alissa, I don't think that your age or your photo's had anything to do with this guy's behavior. It sounds like he was nervous from the get go, and we all know what a bad case of nerves can do to a session
So he decided to bolt for the door. You have every right to be irritated by his behavior, but don't take it personally. There are inconsiderate jerks out there and it sounds like you ran into one of them. So sorry it happened to you.
10:44 am
February 28, 2011
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Ali… you were spared… you didn't have to touch his body. Always a positive side if you look for it. Hugs
4:13 pm
February 28, 2011
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Bree… you're responsible for making me snarf chocolate milk outta my nose! LOL.. You have a very good point, (as always)! I didn't have to touch him and for THAT I'm greatful. xoxoxo - Alissa
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